The manifestation of empathy mostly starts from the family, then inner circles and finally friends/ neighbors. when something is called a secret , it means that it is supposed to be keep and only known to the right person. Most of us have confidants who we trust so much and it is supposed to be just now person.We may trust our families for help but not secrets but we can have an outsider for secrets . Do you think that a secret looses its meaning once it has been revealed to another person apart from you?