Saying No when it is necessary is a rare life trait that can help you overcome and avoid so much problems. People take advantage of the big hearted people and at the end of the day it the same people who are hurt and misused. Helping others should always be differentiated from being taken advantage of or used for favors. being indifferent has also its own consequences since you may end up being isolated and you feel lonely but that does not change who you are…let people learn to embrace you the way you are but not the way they wan you to be. Have you ever been taken advantage of and what is the lessons learned from the experience?