The term easy should only be used by those people who are still depending on their parents fully and are not even planning to have a family or being independent . When someone starts to pay bills and have a family that is when you realize why the prodigal son when back to his fathers homestead and that should make everyone to develop a sense of high sense of respect of their parents no matter their social classes . Bob Marley once said when dating a girl “if she’s amazing , she won’t be easy. If she’s easy, she won’t be amazing. If she’s worth it , you won’t give up. If you give up, you are not worthy. Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for” and that is life, at what point are we supposed to give up on somethings and refocus?